"For reasons usually unknown, some people are born with physical limitations. Specific parts of the body may be abnormal. Regulatory systems may be out of balance. And all of our bodies are subject to disease and death. Nevertheless, the gift of a physical body is priceless...."

- Elder Russell M Nelson

Here's a link to learn more about Anencephaly http://www.anencephalie-info.org/e/index.php and view pictures if you your self are going through the journey or know someone else who is.

"No matter how difficult the trial, and regardless of how heavy our load, we can take comfort in knowing that others before us have borne life's most grievous trials and tragedies by looking to heaven for peace, comfort, and hopefull assurance. We can know as they knew that God is our Father, that He cares about us individually and collectively, and that as long as we continue to exercise our faith and trust in Him there is nothing to fear in the journey."

--M. Russell Ballard, "You Have Nothing to Fear from the Journey", Ensign, May 1997, 59

A link to my friend Breanne's blog about her special angel Joy http://ourjourneywithjoy.blogspot.com/

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Lexi's Headstone Finished = One Great Day!


Two months ago, I checked my e-mail and noticed I had a comment on my blog from someone I didn't know. Inside this message was a mother. Her and her husband had been touched by our story and wanted to extend there helping hand and help us get a permant marker for Lexi's grave. That morning my eyes filled with tears and floods of emotion. I almost thought, this can't be real, and it wouldn't really happen. Heavenly Father had seen my tears, heard my cries, and listened to my prayers and knew this was something I needed. So he sent me an answer to my prayers through this loving family. I don't know the Groat's, but I will never forget them and I will be forever grateful for them! The very next week after I got the e-mail I found my self of Utah Monument ordering Lexies headstone. Something that just days earlier I thought would take 2,3,5, maybe 8 or more years, but it wasn't going to be any time soon. And just late last week it was finished and delivered to the cemetary!! 
Lexi's headstone is beautiful and perfect and I am SO happy!
Thank you will never seem like enough, but "THANK YOU GROAT FAMILY"
Hopefully by your shining example I can pay it forward some day!


With the holiday's comming up, it couldn't have been more of a perfect time to have Lexi's Headstone completed!


Josh and I's immediate family who was in town and able to come helped share this special day with us. Today Lexi would be 4months old! I wanted family to be a part of the special day, so I brought some chalk and had those who were there sign the cement around lexis marker. I also got flowers that had purple and my family wore purple. Purple is a symbol of Lexi. It's her special color! Every single time I see purple I think of my little Angel!
I think the chalk added a wonderful touch! Wish it would stay on forever, but that's okay, cause the kids and I will make lots of visits and redecorate it every time :) Something I'll never get board of!